The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
Monday, 30 October 2006 @ 2:32pm.
The Good:
* One learns many lessons while abroad. Sometimes the lessons are new and other times the lessons are reminders of things you already knew but needed to know again. For example:
— It is important to remember to take care of your health and well-being.
— It is crucial to prioritize your life based on your value system (e.g., compassion, family, friends, hard work).
— You cannot do it all alone; you may need to lean on others for help and that’s okay.
— Even when things are going poorly, there is still hope.
— Stepping out of your comfort zone can be nerve-racking, but it is so worth it.
* It is great when a good idea comes to you (and when you least expect it). For an example of one of my latest ideas, see Indopedia.
* Holidays. They are great for family and friends, taking time out to relax and have fun, and important reminders of what’s important in life. Sure, many holidays have become overly-commercialized, but I like to think that most folks are not so much into the material aspect of holidays as much as the personal, familial, spiritual, etc. aspects.
The Bad:
* Poverty. It’s a terrible, terrible thing. I saw a little homeless boy the other day who apparently spent his earnings from begging on McDonald’s french fries (or someone gave them to him). This image was sad on a number of different levels.
* There are some moments or days when I don’t understand the Indonesian language at all. I have no idea what it is, but sometimes I can’t read, speak, write, or understand it. It’s like my mind has frozen or something. I don’t know if it’s the accent, grammar, content, or what. What I can say is that it is immensely frustrating. One day I could have a very smooth interview or read a transcript without any major difficulties; the next day, I don’t get anything and am just thankful I have some data on tape or paper.
The Ugly:
* An ugly situation develops when someone on the street, in a store, at an office, or wherever says something that offends me, but I don’t feel I have the power to respond. One holds it in and then it festers. You try to keep a positive attitude, but many “small” situations adds up over time and you find yourself thinking bad thoughts about others, having stereotypes, or avoiding certain situations altogether in the hopes of not adding to the terrible cycle. Unhealthy stuff.
* One’s attitude and appearance when you haven’t had enough good sleep. Fighting cats, buzzing and biting mosquitos, loud boarding housemates next door or on the floor above, cooing pet pigeons, adjusting the AC repeatedly, early sunrises, and more have their own special way of disrupting your sleep pattern.




